Relationship has been an issue that makes room for a myriad of opinions and notions anytime there is an opinion poll raised on this very issue in particular.
However, it is seen to be intricate and complex enough when it comes to the moment of decision making. The biblical axiom had it that, “One cannot serve two masters”. This paints it vividly that, it’s either you go leftward or rightward as there is no instance of neutrality in this case. Almost a handful of learners seem quite mesmerized, puzzled and uncertain as if they have been confronted with a bunch of keys to sort out the one that which opens the door to heaven.
NOTE THAT, relationship really involves a lot. It transcends the borders we have day to day envisaged with our consciences. Love, as defined by the MERRIAM WEBSTER DICTIONARY states that, Love is the “affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. This plunges in the characteristics of love that says “Love is patient, caring, love is kind. It is felt most when it’s genuine, manipulated and strength misused” Since love entails all these, how will you study the gent or the lady you have spotted? Nonetheless, the number of books piled up for you to imbibe within a semester of some few months?
Psychology always teaches that, it is wrongfully an act to compare two individuals especially about their IQs. Slow learners may decide to focus on their books now as they vibrantly believe in the verse that says “Study hard for now and all others things shall be added unto you”. Others too may simultaneously choose to handle these two bedrocks for every successful marriage irrespective of the academic tasks imposed on them. Like a fairly die throw, there is the possibility for either of these to pass at the end of the day. As the saying goes “Man know thyself”, there is the need to identify the real YOU before you join what others do.
Moreover, once you have come this far to the tertiary level that you’re graduating anytime soon to secure a job, you have been one of the prospective marriage materials in town. People meet their lovers here at the university or the College. You cannot just give in to any proposal that comes your way where the solemn matrimony will be held in just a week thereafter. It takes time to study your partner making sure he or she possesses all the qualities you would love seeing in your partner. Although the relationship may begin from campus but that cannot warrant you to play any of those candid games, especially the “hide my sausage in your cookie jar” game as humorously expressed. Gentlemen deserves to be graced just as the lady is a valuable asset and needs to be handled painstakingly.
Before you enter into any kind of relationship at this very crucial time apportioned to studies only, there is the wakeup call on you to realize that;
- Relationship and studies are two key things to handle. We should ensure that one wouldn’t be a stumbling block towards our concious efforts towards success.
- Remember at all times that you should finish finish learning before you get in touch with your boyfriend or girlfriend on phone.
- Success in examination is not determined by how long you speak on phone.
Summing it all, studies is of prime importance so let’s remember always that, “The height by which great men reached and kept was not attained by a certain flight but rather when their companions slept were tailing upwards”. Enjoy your stay on campus safely and 1stfocusonlife.
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